There’s something about running your own business — whether you’re a startup founder, freelancer, or proudly self-employed — often from people who have never run a business, never tried what you're doing, and have zero experience beyond maybe watching a few Instagram Reels and listening to one podcast. The next time someone offers you an unsolicited “you should” or “you shouldn’t” — especially if they’ve never been in your shoes — take a breath and smile. You’re allowed to do